The answer my friends is blowing in the wind
The first big happening is actually not a very happy one by any means. This past weekend I discovered that one of my good friends had passed away. Initially, I was quite shocked, and sort of in a state of denial. It did not really hit home until I attended the funeral services a couple days later. It turns out that at 25 years old, nobody is really ready to say goodbye to a friend. This has been my first experience with losing somebody unexpectedly, and so I find myself dealing with a wide array of emotions. The most prominent being that I think a lot of times I take my friends and family for granted. When you have great friends, they are always there for you, and supporting you. Nobody has to ask them to be there. For that reason, it is so easy to forget that their being a part of your life is really a gift. Along with that comes the finding on my part that sometimes you don’t realize how big of a role other people play in your life until they are no longer a part of it.
I have decided to make an effort to let more of my friends know how much I enjoy their company and that I am truly thankful for all they have done for me in life. I can honestly say I have been blessed with wonderful friends and family, as well as a wonderful wife that I know cares the world for me.
The only bright spot to come out of the funeral is that a good portion of my college friends whom I hadn’t seen in quite some time all managed to get to Milwaukee to honor the life of our buddy. After the services, it was nice to gather together and share memories and stories over a few pints of Guinness. It was a great moment in my life where for a short time life slowed down, and everything seemed calm again.
Sorry to start the post on a down note, but it was something that hit me pretty hard. However, there is some better news as of late. I have made the decision that I want to attend chiropractic school. I am currently in the process of applying. This past weekend, Gina and I went to visit National University of Health Sciences just outside Chicago. I absolutely fell in love with it. I did not know what to expect going there, but by the time we left, I knew this is the place I am supposed to be. Now, I just have to sit here and hope that they feel the same way about me.
My hope as of now is that I am able to start school this coming May. The biggest challenge to arise from that scenario is that Gina would still be in dental school for one more year. That would put her in school in Milwaukee, and me in school outside Chicago. Our leading option is to relocate to a middle point between the two cities and split the distance commuting. For one year, we would be spending far more time on the road than either one of us would like to, but it would be for a good cause, and again, it is only one year.
So this post has taken me longer than I had anticipated, so I will just leave it at that. I have plenty more to say, but it should give me incentive to get back on much sooner.
Other thoughts, interests, etc…
Favorite beer of recent days:
Pressing 78 Porter (Milwaukee Ale House)
A rich mahagony ale with warm malt flavors and hints of raisins
6% ABV
Favorite Movie:
Forgetting Sarah Marshall
Recent Restaurant adventure:
Water Buffalo in Milwaukee’s third ward
If I were a food critic, I would give it 3.75 out of 5 stars. I went with the spicy black bean burger…it was pretty delicious.
Book I am currently reading:
Matterhorn by Karl Marlantes
Book I am currently reading in secret:
Are you there Vodka? It’s me Chelsea by Chelsea Handler
Note: Photo up top is the Walleye I caught over Memorial Day weekend